The Need to Unwind

We all have a dream or even multiple dreams, for that matter. And of course, we should work for it with every inch of our being. But there's also one other thing that we have to remind ourselves every now and then. We are neither machines nor robots. We are humans. And all humans deserve a break- we deserve the time to relax.

There's this friend of mine who is preparing for an important admission test. And she used to be my best friend in the past. She is still very dear to me but to be honest, every week or so, I'm left wondering if she is actually alive or not. Because there's literally zero contact from her side. She is neck-deep in her preparations for that exam so much so that she does not even have the time to respond even if we text her that side. She rarely leaves the house. She rarely even leaves her study table. And it's good- it's great- that she is that much motivated. But I worry for her sometimes. Because it's as they say- even if it's a good thing, too much of it only ends up being bad.

Dedication is good. Consistency is awesome. Not many people can do something and keep at it until they succeed. But every single one of us should understand that we should not lose ourselves on the path to that success. For we will not be able to enjoy the fruits of it if we are dead inside. Naturally, different kinds of stress and worries accumulate in our heads over a while, and if we do not find the time to unwind and relieve ourselves off these afflictions, then we might just combust altogether. And if we combust- if we die inside- if we are rendered a living corpse- then what truly is the meaning of success?

So keep up the good work. You're doing great. But once it gets too much for you to bear, make sure to hit the pause button and just let go of everything that is the cause of your distress. Surround yourself with the people you love. Go for an outing. Have fun adventures or picnics together. Or if you prefer to be alone, unwind in solitude. Read a book. Rewatch your comfort show. Go on a binge-eating streak. Whatever makes you happy, do that. Because after all that, when you return to your work, you will find a refreshed mind that works more effectively than before.

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